You're doing amazing sweetie !

2020 has really come out to be the year we least expected in somewhat all aspects of our lives. We have lost, we have mourned, we have struggled, and some of us think the worst is yet to come because the year isn’t over yet. We think we can do better; the light at the end of the tunnel is a lot further away than we might have initially perceived.

The increased levels of uncertainty which have been escorted by this year have only added to already existing feelings of anxiety, depression, and added amounts of pressure to pattern everything. The reality of it is, there is still four months left of this year. Which means there is still four months left to pattern what you want to, secure the bag, slide into someone’s dm’s, and bettering yourself in ways you didn’t think you could.

I know a lot of people have said that covid has been a blessing in disguise and the TL has told everyone that you should have done something worthy during lockdown, but we don’t all have the same reality. The revelations of a pandemic have meant different things for everyone; troubles in finance, trouble getting childcare, rent to pay whilst being furloughed, celebrities being outed as paedophiles and a change in regular scheduled programming

As a believer of Christ, I believe that God does not lack; what will be for you, will come to you. The going has gotten tough but don’t be too hard on yourself. God doesn’t align everyone with the same path because we’re not all destined to do the same thing. Some of what is happening to you in this life is part of growing pains which SUCKS but the best is truly yet to come! Just be patient.

You’re doing amazing sweetie!

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BLM GON' NEED MORE PRESS

When Cardi B said, ‘bitches be pressed’, she wasn’t mf lying. Bitches be PRESSED, but bitches be pressed about the wrong things. Since the BLM has caught serious media attention, and the racists have been exposing themselves, I’ve noticed that people really don’t like it when they aren't met with silence. Everyday why is it race relations but did you check yourself before you wrecked yourself? Black lives really rattle people, inject iiiittttttttt !!!! People don’t like it when you don't comply with ignorance. People don’t like talking about racism because man "dont see colour". People don’t like it when Black and Brown people are talking about the never-ending oppression that we’ve had to endure through no choice of our own because “we’re not our ancestors”. All this ignorance and complacency brings me to re-introduce the town I live in and the obtuseness it’s almost always escorted by. This town has a very prominent community page on Facebook which is mostly us

You go Glen Coco !

I recently stumbled upon a tweet that said “being insecure is a waste of youth, nobody is above you”; which in more ways than one has led me to evaluate just how far I’ve come in terms of self-love and self-appreciation. As aforementioned in previous blog posts, I have had a hard time coming to love the skin that I am in and acknowledging parts of myself that I have previously not thought of in a positive light. I do find that sometimes you can’t win; I mean that in terms of being confident versus not being so confident. I personally think people want to be mean about something/someone before they can say something nice and even then, more time it’s backhanded. We all have insecurities, but it’s just some are better at hiding them than others. Shoutout to my mum and sister for always backing a brother even when my self-esteem was in the gutter. Learning to love myself has been quite the journey if I do say so myself, but I have learnt and, in some ways, come to terms with the fact

It is what it is.

It is what it is. Shit happens and then you die, but what matters is how you live your live in between. Sometimes shit hurts, sometimes we lose people, sometimes we can smile about the small things in life. It hurts to lose friends, break up with your significant other or coming to terms with things you thought you’d never have to deal with. In some ways what’s most painful is that it’s inevitable; it’s part of growing pains. Eventually we all learn to live without the people we thought we could never live without. We meet new people who make up for the pain we once felt. I try and find lessons in everything that happens to me because as I've learnt in this life, I can't come and kill myself for things I can't change. I know sometimes nature just naturally runs its course and you grow out of doing certain things and or people and eventually God will put new things and new people in place of the past, but it doesn’t mean it’s any less painful or difficult to move on fr

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